“Sex and relationships, infused by the brain.”

I don’t have much time these days to devote to reading other blogs, but I do have my favorites (see my list of “My Favorite Blogs”), and the one I seem to always check regularly (and the one I like to contribute comments to) is Smart Girls Who Do It. Not only are the blog post subjects interesting, but the posts (and most of the comments) are always a great read. Whether witty, funny, deep, informational, entertaining, or any combination, I always find myself getting sucked in to reading everything - even when I “don’t have the time”.  It is one of very few blogs that I get excited about when I see a new post there.  Anyway, this is a personal recommendation, so go check it out!  And let me know what you think!

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So, I consider myself to be pretty liberal when it comes to being attracted to different types of guys. I have enjoyed being intimate with a rainbow of men; of various cultures, colors, ages, backgrounds and the like. On a strictly physical standpoint, I think there are examples of good looking guys in every race on the planet, within a fairly large age-bracket, and in varying degrees of height and weight.

And this is the type of thing I was proudly explaining to a friend of mine several years ago. To which he answered - “OK, so if you are so open to dating all types of people, then how about a woman?” And he was not talking about the “one night I kinda hooked up with a girl”, or even the experimental ” lesbian phase”. He was talking about seriously maintaining a loving relationship with a female of our species. Hmmmm. A very good point, I had to admit. And my answer?: “I guess I haven’t met the woman to bring that out in me yet.” (Aside from my crush on k.d. lang, but I haven’t actually met her, so we aren’t able to put that theory to the test!) Of course I thought my answer was a pretty good one at the time, but through the years that question has surfaced in my mind many times. Yes, I am happily married to my soul-mate who just happens to be a man. No, I would not leave him for anyone - man OR woman. But on a purely hypothetical basis, I have asked myself - would I be open enough to consider a serious relationship with a woman?

I would like to say my answer is yes. I mean, love is love, right? I am a firm believer that it’s not what the person looks like, it’s who they are. And if that’s the case then it should apply to anyone at all in the human race, including folks of my own sex. Women. Chicks. Should we not all consider swinging both ways? Playing for both teams? It sure would increase the odds of finding someone, don’t you think? For women, it would be by over 50%, in fact (since women account for just over 50% of the world’s population.)

Of course I think this consideration is much easier to even entertain if you are a woman. I mean, a straight man considering playing for the other team? Yah, right! LMAO! Never. Not in a million years. What’s that? You want to remind me of the “gay for pay” straight guys that have sex with a guy on film for money? OK, maybe it’s a gay guy pretending to be straight, or maybe it really is the very example of what I’m talking about - appreciating a sexy body regardless of sex. But let’s face it, for some reason it is much easier for most folks to enjoy seeing two women together. Certainly straight men have no problem with this. OK, they downright GET OFF on the mere IDEA for goodness-sake (and that is a subject for another post!) But I have to admit that I too would rather see two women together than two men. So why is that? You would think that if straight men enjoyed seeing two women together, then straight women would like to see two men together. And yet, uh……NO! Not my favorite thing. Don’t get me wrong. I can appreciate the concept of two men together. I am a complete and 100% proponent of love/sex/whatever between two men. I think gay marriage should be legal and accepted (also another future post topic.) One of my favorite TV shows of all time is “Queer As Folk”, and I think the guy-on-guy sex scenes were instrumental and absolutely necessary. I absolutely appreciated the love and lust expressed between the characters. But honestly, as a generally straight woman (who is mildly bi-curious…?) I can say with certainty that I would rather see two women together. Any time, any place, in pretty much any and all circumstances. Why? I dunno. I would venture to guess it gets down to a purely physical instinct. Perhaps there is some scientific data/science that backs this up - which I’m sure you could find on the Internet. All I know is what comes naturally to me, and most folks I know.

So, perhaps I should make some sort of conclusion now, following my typical long-winded discourse. And here it is: Two women together? SEXY! Does this mean straight women should try dating other women? I dunno. Is it discrimination if they don’t? I dunno. Two men together? SEXY (mostly to gay men.) Does this mean straight men should try dating other men? Since I’m not a straight man, I don’t feel like I can answer this with any credibility. I’m gonna guess, though, that most straight guys would answer with a resounding “Hell NO!” Is this discrimination? I dunno. And so, the majority of my responses to the questions are?: “I dunno.”

LOL - not sure if my post contained any new/additional/helpful information or answers, but hopefully it got you thinking….That’s the best I can offer right now!

Hi folks!

I recently found this awesome website which highlights great sex-writing. I submitted a post of mine (Why the deaf are probably great lovers) this week. Please check out this weeks highlights:

Sugasm #142:

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #143? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks

Interludes - part 3

“He winds the rope around his hands, smoothing the kinks, and I stand there, breathing a little faster, conscious of all those eyes upon me.”

Hurts So Good

“I want you to wear the badges of sweet distress for days.”

Shower fantasy

“You don’t want to admit it, but you want me.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself

Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice

Why I haven’t blogged about the Mosley case

More Sugasm

Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

BDSM & Fetish

A bit of roleplay …

Bound, Pinched and Spanked

Club Visit, Part 1

The Coolest Bondage Fetish Edgeplay Picture Ever Taken

24/7 - Día Internacional del BDSM

Discoveries of the Domina

First Encounter: an unlikely meeting

Girls Boarding School updates. Hard Punishment

The Hottest Gas Mask Fetish Erotica I’ve Ever Read By Tina Peitsche

Leather Retreat 2008 – My Dolly

Masochism

Mr. Kink Plays With Thursday’s Child

My inner pain slut makes an appearance

Play time at Jules & Malycia’s

The Seduction of Daddy’s baby

Spanking Galleries: Punishment for pretty girl

Sex Work

A Stellar First Call

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews

Housewife on the Loose

Mz Berlin Is SICK! Unfair. New Fetish Movie With Jewell Marceau In My Clips Store

Nexus Vibro Review For Babeland

Ron Jeremy Reviews: The Max Hardcore Verdict

The World Erotic Art Museum (WEAM) and Lochai

Erotic Writing and Experiences

Carmine

Catalina loves Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes

Club Tantra: My Experience, Unabridged 3

Fiction: The Hotel, Part 2

Fiction: The Jet Setter, Part III of III

Getting to fuck the neighbor 18

Hunger

I Have a Crush

I worship your cock

A long wait

A Lovely Sexual Fantasy From A Very Special Friend

No reservations, part 5

Out of the woods - part III

The Point of Exhaustion

Popping My Cherry

Quiet as Kept

Receptacle For Your Love…

Video: Seducing a Girl (Complete)

Welcome Home

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio

Anna, Evi & Jula (Hegre-Art)

Brittany Fuchs

Cam2sex submits another free blowjob movie

CamWithHer blondie Elise shows round ass

Nude II

Showin’ a little ass -HNT

Sex Advice

Advice for Women on a Wife Led Marriage

Ask Miss Bliss-She leaves me tongue-tied

Going Green While Getting Down

How to have sex in a car

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships

Faking it

Fine Line Between Art and Porn Finer Than Ever

Half-Nekkid and Turning 40

It’s Good To Be Catalina

Love & Sex = Chemical?

Revelation

Still haven’t found what I’m looking for

“Stripper” or “Exotic Dancer?”

Why the deaf are probably great lovers

Sex Humor

How About Doing Something with that Unsightly Vagina of Yours

If Loving This Video Is Wrong, We Don’t Want to Be Right

My First Time (with a Home Pregnancy Test)

So, my friend was looking for a good vibrator and I suggested this one called Rabbit Habit. I got a text from her the other day that said the rabbit produced “two home runs” in one session! I will assume that you need no interpretation for that. Suffice it to say this thing ROCKS! There is a reason why rabbits are so popular, and this one - which happens to be the one referenced in an episode of “Sex in the City” - is a prime example! The folks at EdenFantasys.com are doing a fantastic job at promoting toys that are truly made for women, including this rabbit, and doing it with a user-friendly website which includes reviews (this toy got 4 out of 5 stars from 52 votes), and expert advice. Whether you are new to adult toys, or consider yourself an expert, this thing is worth checking out. Do yourself a favor, and indulge in the ultimate pampering a woman can provide for herself! And if you are so inclined I would love it if you could let me know your thoughts/reactions!

You may look at the title of this post and say, “huh?” so let me explain.  I don’t know much about the deaf community.  But I had a great conversation today with a hearing friend of mine who has been taking sign-language classes.  As a by-product of learning to sign, she has also been introduced to some of the complexities of the deaf community that differ from the hearing community.  She also happens to have a mind similar to mine (she seems to gravitate to the sexual questions and observations.)  She was curious to know how a deaf guy would know during sex when his chick has cum, considering he would not be able to hear the “Ohhhhh!” (or some other form of audible confirmation.)  So, she mustered up the guts and asked one of her new deaf friends.  His response?  He said that the partially deaf would utilize their hearing aids, but if that option was not available they would be more “attentive”.  This piqued my friend’s interest, and mine as well.  And it made me draw the conclusion that in theory the deaf would make excellent lovers.  Wouldn’t you like to have a lover who concentrates on being attentive?  Who watches for and learns to recognize every move, every expression, every response - and reacts accordingly?  A lover who is acutely aware of the senses other than sound?  Who pays attention to detail?  Who notices the slightest change in your actions and reactions?  Wow.  I realize that the sounds associated with sex can be a huge turn-on for many people, but isn’t the bottom line about sensation?  And who better to fulfill that desire than someone who is accustomed to tuning in to and interpreting touch and sight?  Now, as I said before I am admittedly uneducated about the deaf.  And I realize that you can not classify any group of people that simply.  In fact, no doubt there are folks out there who have sexual experiences within the deaf community that would refute what I am saying - and rightfully so.  I am merely making a very general theory, based on a very limited viewpoint.  Nonetheless, I mean this theory to be a compliment to the deaf, and it is meant more as a commentary on how all of us could be more attentive during sex - and in general.  I think if we took the time to really pay attention to ALL of our senses, we would notice so much more and benefit greatly from it.  How many times have you been looking right at someone and not “seen” them?  How many times have you misinterpreted someone because you were unable to determine their “signals”?  How many times have you been frustrated that someone didn’t understand you because they were not paying attention?  So, the next time you find yourself sexually entangled with someone - do them (and yourself) a favor and really pay attention to ALL your senses.  I have a feeling you will noticeably improve the experience for both of you!

So, apparently I needed to look up some statistical data to determine my intuitive guess.  And just as I assumed, there are not a lot of women who have orgasms from intercourse - or that have them regularly at all.  I had arrived at this theory, not due to my own experience (I know, I’m one of those lucky bitches who cums pretty easily….more on that later), but due to listening to and reading about other women’s experiences.  Holy crap, there are so many women that have a hard time cumming!  According to my research, about 10% of women have NEVER had an orgasm.  And only about 30% of women can have an orgasm from intercourse only (the remainder need clitoral stimulation to reach that elusive finish line.)  Dang!  Seeing those numbers makes me want to figure out how to improve them!  It’s no wonder that women in long-term relationships tend to have sex less often.  I mean, if you KNEW you weren’t gonna get yours most of the time, and you had already “been there, done that” many times, and then add factors like a busy life, job, kids, that create a constant state of exhaustion, it’s no wonder that most women in a long-term relationship are not really interested in sex nearly as often as their male partner.  I am of course speaking of straight couples - I would imagine that lesbian couples may have an entirely different experience (which perhaps I can explore on a later post.)  Anyway, I came to an “a-ha” moment recently about this.  If a woman like me (who pretty much cums every time I have sex with my husband), still finds herself turning him down due to exhaustion and/or just not being in the mood (we women are complex creatures - even those of us that are pretty comfortable with our sexuality), then how much more difficult must it be for a woman who doesn’t normally reach an orgasm to agree to sex with her long-term partner?  I mean, I may start out being sort of half into it, but by the time I am basking in the afterglow, I am always glad I succumbed to my husband’s advances, and am usually wondering why we don’t do it more often.  But I have to be honest and say that if I knew it was only going to be for his pleasure, I would most certainly turn him down more often.

So, I am a firm believer that in order to fix a problem you have to understand why it’s happening to begin with.  According to my research, there are a few reasons why women don’t/can’t orgasm.  Apparently there are some biological reasons (some women just seem to be more predisposed to cum than others.)  Experience plays a part, too.  As women have more sexual experiences, they are able to learn what turns them on, and what exact physical stimulation is required for that elusive “O”.  And most experts agree that the woman’s mental state has a lot to do with it.  If you are inhibited, anxious, nervous, stressed-out or otherwise preoccupied, reaching an orgasm is virtually impossible.  There are scientific reasons for this, and if you’re interested, there’s a wealth of information on the web for you to discover.  But since I don’t want my blog posts to be anthologies, I will let you do your own research on the details.  Suffice it to say that if your mind isn’t on the same page as your sex-drive, you’re spinning your wheels.  Unlike guys, who can easily shut off their minds during sex, we women have to jump through a few more hoops to “get there”.

So, HOW do we get there?   Well, as with most important things in life, the answer is extremely complex, and dependent upon the individual.  But I did seem to find some common themes in my research.  Here are a few tips:

- If you have no problem reaching an orgasm when flying solo (masturbating), then your problem is more likely mental.
- Use clitoral stimulation in conjunction with intercourse (does it really matter how you get there as long as you get there?)
- Try new stuff (you never know what may hit that high note for you!)
- Speak up!  Tell him what he needs to do to get you where you want to be
- Do whatever it takes to rid yourself of stress, anxiety, and any other roadblocks - at least during sex!

That’s just a brief excerpt of the information I found.  If you are interested in learning more about how you can improve your own orgasm odds, I recommend you do some research on the web that you can tailor to your own needs/situation.  In addition, there is some great information on some of my favorite websites: Babeland, EdenFantasys, and Hot Movies For Her.  If you are committed to improving your sex life, there’s a good chance will be successful!

Here’s to more orgasms more often for women everywhere!

Just wanted to make a quick post to let you all know that I was on vacation the last 10 days or so.  I’m back now and will be making some posts very soon! I hope you all are enjoying your summer - I know I am!

“…women tend to be more “discerning” shoppers - they want to know where the content is coming from, do the producers/sellers care about them or are they just about a quick buck. As opposed to guys buying with their penises, I think more women shop with their head and heart.”
- Venus Vegas

As many of you may know, I love the website HotMoviesForHer.com! And fortunately I happen to know one of the amazing women running things over there! She is known as Venus Vegas (see her bio for more info on that moniker!) I enjoyed coming up with questions, and enjoyed even more reading her responses - she is such an intelligent and amazing woman! I particularly liked what she had to say about women’s taste in porn and how it impacts younger women and girls. As a mom of a young girl, that REALLY struck home with me, and I completely agree with her opinion. It’s a complex world we live in, and although I am absolutely liberal when it comes to sexuality and freedom of speech, I am also acutely aware of the affect the “world” has on the young and impressionable. I am all for free speech and expression - when it is exposed to the appropriate age. Perhaps I will write a post about that subject in the future. Anyway, I digress. I want to thank Venus Vegas for taking the time and effort to answer my questions! Without further ado, I give you the interview with Venus Vegas @ HotMoviesForHer.com:

O4Her: What is your “official” title at Hot Movies?

VV: I wear many hats! I started and run HotMoviesForHer.com, and I also manage webmaster affiliate and studio accounts for all of our VOD sites, as well as marketing and helping development of our affiliate program MovieDollars.com. I also attend almost every single trade show, which is pretty much a monthly task!

O4Her: How did you find your job at Hot Movies, or did it find you?

VV: LOL, this is a long back story [so] I will try to keep it as short as possible! Years ago I was going to school for fashion design and worked at a fetish boutique in West Hollywood, which definitely opened my mind to the risqué side of the world - I loved it. Fast forward a few years and some personal issues that set me back, I was working at a bakery when I learned I had Celiac disease (cannot eat gluten, ie: wheat, most common grains), and had to find a new job that would not make me sick. Since job hunting is oh so thrilling, I saw an entry level job listing at HotMovies.com, and I thought, “I think this is porn… this sounds like fun until I find a real job.” Well, 4 years later and some positions higher, I’m still here and I love it.

O4Her: How do you explain your job to strangers?

VV: Ha, depends who the stranger is! Usually I babble on about internet marketing and SEO (search engine optimization). Some people are quick [to] judge when you mention “adult” industry, either that you’re a complete perverted heathen, or that you’re a complete perverted nympho.

O4Her: Since launching Hot Movies For Her two years ago, what changes have you seen in regards to women looking for porn?

VV: I don’t think that much has changed in women searching for porn… over the past few years and as time goes on I think more women are seeking it out and also know a little more of what they’re looking for, and more acceptance from society definitely. When I started the site a couple years ago, I saw an opening in the “female” market that I felt we could serve - more video options, discrete online purchasing and viewing without monthly commitments. Overall there is much community in the adult web space, but I think it’s even closer in the side that markets to women, because it’s not just about money, it’s a personal investment as well. I think most female run adult businesses care about women in general.

O4Her: Have you learned anything surprising about women’s taste in porn?

VV: Honestly, after working for a fetish company, NOTHING surprises me about what turns people on… I think the most surprising is possibly the increasing amount of mainstream exposure in magazines and talk shows. They’ve always talked about sex - “10 New Hot Ways To Turn Your Man On!” every month, so you’d think it would be a natural progression into recommended porn, but at the same time I know I wasn’t the only pre-teen reading those same magazines, so it’s a little awkward at the same time. While I think sex and porn are great, I think the current trend of mainstream over-exposure can be damaging to young girls. When I was growing up, when people even kissed on TV you’d hear the audience “OOoooOOOhhh”… now every teen show is all about sordid sex scandals. I think it gives the wrong impression. Sure, people might say it’d be good for our business later, but I think the fact that it’s marketed to teenagers by non-adult companies is just wrong. Porn gets a lot of slack, but I think the mainstream companies are pushing way too many limits. Wow, sorry, I rambled off track there a bit… basically I think the mainstream exposure is helping in the acceptance of women that it’s OK to watch porn, but also that the exposure is starting at too young of an age, when girls shouldn’t have to not only worry about the pressures of sex, but the pressures of being overtly sexual. On the other hand, I think the recent show “The Secret Lives of Women” on WEtv, with their episode on porn stars, gave a good insight into the performer side. They also featured Buck Angel, who was born female but identifies as male, who I know touched a number of people who feel the same way. I think real life exposure like this is good. I think understanding your own sexuality and what turns you on comes first, and porn comes second in helping explore your fantasies and filling and complimenting any needs you may have.

O4Her: Why do you think there should be adult websites specifically for women?

VV: There’s debate pro and against this. I see the points from both sides, and working for a company that (until I came along!) marketed predominantly to men, I say there should be. If only for a couple main reasons. One, I’d say at least 95% of adult websites are geared towards men, and I’ll honestly say a lot of content being made is just not good. The sex isn’t real, it’s all about the “money shot” and the way it’s shot the performers aren’t in positions that are natural. That may appeal to some women, but “women’s” sites usually feature content that gets lost in that mix - real sex, more erotic foreplay, focus on the women’s pleasure (and the woman is truly pleasured!), not degrading to women in general. A lot of this content is made by women, and not as easily accessible from elsewhere.

Another reason, which is debatable (but I know I personally feel this way when I buy), is that women tend to be more “discerning” shoppers - they want to know where the content is coming from, do the producers/sellers care about them or are they just about a quick buck. As opposed to guys buying with their penises, I think more women shop with their head and heart. At least some of the time

O4Her: What are your predictions for the next two years regarding women and porn?

VV: I definitely think it will be even more acceptable than it is today. I do believe that there are some women who do like porn of any sort, however I think a lot of people who say they don’t like it just haven’t found good porn that turns them on. I know I can blow through a bunch of movies I think will be good until I find one that I actually find hot. The goal of sites for women, including [Hot Movies For Her], is to help find that hot porn.

I was actually talking to an old friend this weekend who I hadn’t seen in years who said she knows nothing about porn. I think this is common, and for some people, it won’t make any difference in their lives. On the flip side for others though, I think if you can find what turns you on it can do wonders not only for your sex life, but even in your own sexual fantasies.

O4Her: Do you think being a “sex-positive” woman is an advantage or a hindrance in the dating world?

VV: Ahh, you know I’d like to think it’s an advantage, but I think for me I tend to find the guys that start to get funny ideas in their head! Overall, I think it’s an advantage because it’s basically just self-confidence… I know what I like and I’m not afraid of it, so it helps not only in the sack, but in the dating world of sifting out the assholes (kind of).

O4Her: What advice can you give to a novice (a woman who has never viewed porn)?

VV: Basically, do you know what turns you on? I think subconsciously most people know, but it takes a bit to figure it out on a conscious level. I also think porn is a great way to explore fantasies that you don’t necessarily want to act out in real life. Movie reviews can help weed out good from bad, things that are portrayed that you want to see or don’t want to see. I also think written erotica is a good way to explore as well, words are much less in your face than video. Once you find something you like, start exploring from there - the director or studios other works, what other movies one of the stars was in, or even other movies in that niche.

O4Her: What is your favorite movie at Hot Movies For Her, and why?

VV: I have a number of favorites, but my ultimate favorite is “The Good Girl” by Erika Lust. She’s an independent filmmaker from Spain, and she captured just enough of the pre-sex build up and then a quality sex scene that stands out from much of the mass produced sex scenes that are made. A close second are the movies from Stella Films, by Estelle Joseph. She matches stars with chemistry that comes across very hot on video, and also uses music that isn’t tacky!

O4Her: I have been enjoying reading your blog on Hot Movies For Her! I’m going to guess you are a fan of music, so what are you listening to these days?

VV: Well, I can’t take credit for our Friday “Mixtape Rewinds”, where we feature random music picks. But all of us are music fans, with varied tastes! My personal tastes run the gamut - I did my first “Mixtape Rewind” and I featured a Russian singer that I heard in a recent cab ride. [editors note: see Venus’ blog for more info on the cab ride!]

O4Her: Do you have a favorite porn soundtrack?

VV: Currently no. But if I had my wish, there would be an excellent sex scene set to anything by Rob Zombie. Or the Cramps, their music is very sexy too.

O4Her: You go to a lot of adult trade shows, and I’m sure you’ve seen some interesting things. Can you share any highlights – stuff that has a “sexy-factor” or a “weird-factor”, or is otherwise juicy?

VV: You’d think I would! Most of the shows I attend are webmaster shows, so it’s business to business web people (with tons of naked girls around). I tell my friends stories that I think are mundane, and they’re like “Your job is like Mardi Gras!”. I guess I’m jaded? I think my favorite part is to meet the people behind the scenes, producers and performers, and hear their side of what they do and how they like it. I remember one time talking with Joanna Angel a couple years ago, telling her how I love her movies and how she always found hot guys, but I couldn’t take all of the gagging in the movies, to which she said how the girls want to do that. Even though I know a lot of women like sex in ways that other people might find “degrading”, it’s always good to hear that the performers are into it, regardless if you actually like to watch it. I think this spans across a lot (not necessarily all) content.

O4Her: Do you have any tips, “insider info”, or advice for users of HotMoviesForHer.com?

VV: I’d like to think everything is self explanatory, but I know it’s not LOL! I guess the biggest thing is that even though we are part of a much larger company, and we are a real team of women that run the site, right now there’s 4 of us. One thing I love about our company is that we’re honest and don’t scam our customers in any way.

O4Her.com: Can you give me a shameless plug for Hot Movies for Her? Maybe the benefits and advantages to using the site?

VV: I think our two biggest benefits are our blog and our video site. Our blog is free, fun and informative. We also don’t just write about Cosmo style sex, we touch on lesbian and gender identity topics and issues. Two of us are straight, and two of us are lesbian, including J.D. Bauchery, who is our resident “sexpert”. We write about everything from, “George Clooney is Single -He’s Mine Now!” to the latest in GLBT rights and sex scandals, as well as interviews with top stars and female producers. We also have industry guest columns from Nica Noelle, a seasoned lesbian performer and director/producer, and Audacia Ray, a former sex-worker/advocate/writer and award nominated director. I think one of the challenges of doing a women’s site on a whole is that so many women are completely different, and even if you are born with a vagina doesn’t mean you’ll fit the mold of what society thinks a typical “women” is, and we try to make everyone welcome and find things that will interest them. On a video side, we review different movies and have different “theaters” based on a number of different genres, but we don’t limit our selections - we know everyone has varied tastes and we’re not here to tell them they have to watch this video or that video. Our site is great because it’s not only discrete online viewing (no embarrassing video store trips or DVDs lying around), but there’s no monthly or recurring fees. All new users get 10 minutes free, and you have the option to purchase more in the future. You never get charged unless you make a purchase, and your unwatched minutes never expire. You don’t have that pressure to watch just because you paid for the month. We also have a lot of “for women” content that you can’t find at other sites with the same set up as ours. And finally, because the site exists because we love it. No one is forced to work on it (yes we get paid, but we chose to work on it) - the site was born out of personal beliefs, and fortunately has grown into something that I hope women (or anyone) can enjoy.

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